Marriage~ what do I think about it~

Well, after reading my friend blogs, I have asked myself. What does marriage mean to me?
I have been in marriage for like 4 months, to me marriage still a bit not clear to me. Marriage is like a phone call to me in the night, while I am sleeping..... and woke up sleepy and answer,~ "who the hack are you?"... not sure if anyone understand the way I am trying to put it.

I am still amazed I am married......and wonder why I am married.

Why do I marry?
To share my feeling with my wife? .....fuck no~
First thing I learn about woman is : "you never tell them how you feel to their face right away".
if she asked, how is my dress today? you can't say I don't like the dress right away. I have learned to say~ the words like  "maybe", "perhaps" . Such as,  this one is ok~ but MAYBE you want to try that one on as well...or  perhaps you should try something that match your shoes?

To live with a creature that shout at me first, and later become gentle and soft ~? Yup, that is the woman I know~and love. There are many reasons why I don't like to get marry.....but I find a reason for all of them.

Number 1: According to a solid research finding~ (yes research is in my gene) a woman will gain up to 6 kilograms if she had a partner but no baby in the first 10 years of marriage.....and yes Maggie have gain some weights after our wedding, but I think I can live up with extra 6 kg on her, which she have not reach the 6 kg limit~ if she did, I shall start a new research.

Number 2 : Marriage is the end of options, end of game..... yes with marriage, I lose my right to many things that was the right thing to do while I am single. But I guess I can live with just one woman, I did the math right this time. If one woman already give me so much headache and painful life sometime, imagine what would 2 woman or 3 woman could have done to me.....

Number 3: Marriage is a constant compromise...Yes, the choice of freedom is gone, now "WE" will decide what to do over the weekend and where to live, what to buy for dinner~ etc. Yes, I do want to experience everything (all the right thing only) before the long dirt nap~But it wouldn't be fun if I experience it along, who to share with?

Number 4: Marriage is FOREVER!!!! God, this scares me the most. It is not like TV shows when you want to shut it down or switch channels, you just click the freaking remote control....... Still, I have not find my remote control and  I have not found a reason to switch channels or shut it down yet....I am still trying to find a reason for this one....   

On the night before I got marry, my father tell me this. (Maggie can prove this did happened...)
My son, there are 2 rules you need to know about marriage.
Rule # 1. Wife is always right.  Rule # 2. If you think your wife is wrong, go back to rule number 1.
I didn't quite agree with that till recently...after the fight.... I came to an understanding that  in our marriage there are 2 sides...one who is always right, and the other one......the husband.


So, if I am not here to share all my feeling to my wife, why do I bother to marry her?
I guess my best answer will be "I kind of grow on her at first, and now I am stuck with her"  and yes~ I love her as well with all my heart. If you love it all, there shouldn't be nothing wrong "living" with it.~